“What counsel give ye that we may answer this people, who have spoken to me, saying, Make the yoke which thy father did put upon us lighter?”
The full verse · 1 Kings 12:9 · KJV
And he unto them, What counsel ye that we this , who have to me, , the which thy did upon us ?
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Specifically the young men who had grown up with Rehoboam, his contemporaries who served as his advisors, distinct from the older counselors who had served Solomon.
Why It Was Asked
The purpose behind the questionRehoboam frames his question to solicit counsel while revealing his own agenda; he presents the people’s request as something needing a response rather than something requiring his submission. By asking rather than deciding, he distributes responsibility for his eventual harsh answer while maintaining the appearance of deliberative leadership.
The Response
What Scripture recordsThe young counselors advised Rehoboam to respond harshly, telling him to declare his little finger thicker than his father’s waist and to add to the people’s yoke with whips and scorpions (1 Kings 12:10-11). Rehoboam followed their counsel, speaking roughly to the people on the third day, which resulted in the division of the kingdom as ten tribes rebelled under Jeroboam.
The Bigger Picture
Where this fits in God's storyRehoboam’s question reveals a king who has already turned from wisdom. He asks ‘What counsel give ye?’ after dismissing the advice of Solomon’s seasoned counselors, exposing that he seeks affirmation rather than direction. The Hebrew construction emphasizes reciprocity, ‘that we may answer’ (nashiv) uses the same root the people used in their request, suggesting Rehoboam views this as a power negotiation rather than a pastoral moment. He frames their petition as something ‘spoken to me’ rather than a legitimate grievance, distancing himself from responsibility for Solomon’s oppressive policies he inherited. The question form masks what is actually a refusal to serve, allowing Rehoboam to shift blame to his counselors while pursuing the harsh course his pride already preferred. This single question becomes the hinge upon which Israel’s united kingdom swings toward irrevocable division.
When you ask for advice, check whether you’re truly seeking wisdom or just looking for someone to validate what you’ve already decided. Rehoboam illustrates how surrounding yourself with yes-men who share your immaturity leads to catastrophic decisions. Proverbs 11:14 warns, ‘Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety’; but only if those counselors are wise. Seek out voices that challenge your assumptions, especially from those with godly experience. When people bring legitimate concerns about how your leadership affects them, resist the temptation to defend your authority and instead ask, ‘How can I serve these people well?’ God measures greatness not by how much power you wield but by how humbly you use it for others’ good.
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