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Old TestamentGenesis 30:31Law
“What shall I give thee?”

The full verse · Genesis 30:31 · KJV

And he , What shall I give ? And , Thou shalt not me any : if thou wilt this for me, I will and thy :

Asked by

Laban

Asked to

Jacob

Jacob, Laban’s nephew and son-in-law, who had faithfully tended Laban’s flocks and significantly increased his wealth.

Why It Was Asked

Laban initiates wage negotiation by framing the discussion as if he is the generous benefactor, inviting Jacob to name his price while maintaining psychological advantage in the negotiation. By asking rather than offering, Laban positions himself as the magnanimous employer while subtly pressuring Jacob to request less than he deserves. This question-form masks Laban’s desperation to retain Jacob, whose management had brought observable divine blessing to Laban’s estate.

The Response

Jacob answered by stating he wanted no direct payment but proposed instead to continue pasturing Laban’s flock in exchange for keeping every speckled and spotted goat, every spotted and speckled sheep, and every black lamb born from that day forward (Genesis 30:32-33). He further stipulated that his righteousness would be evident, as any animal without these markings found among his flock would be considered stolen.

The Bigger Picture

Laban’s question masks calculation with generosity. Having admitted that Yahweh blessed him on Jacob’s account, Laban now asks what wage Jacob desires, knowing Jacob’s management skills are irreplaceable. The Hebrew construction What shall I give creates the illusion of open-handed liberality while actually forcing Jacob to make the first offer in negotiation, a disadvantageous position. Laban asks rather than offers because a question transfers the burden of setting terms to Jacob while preserving Laban’s ability to reject whatever Jacob requests. This question represents the latest manipulation in a twenty-year pattern of Laban’s deception, from the wedding night switch to the repeated wage changes. Yet the question’s very existence acknowledges that Jacob has become the indispensable party, the one through whom divine blessing flows, even as Laban tries to maintain the appearance of control. The theological weight rests in how God turns manipulative questions into opportunities for His servants to demonstrate wisdom and trust.

For Your Life Today

Sometimes the best response to an unfair offer is not demanding what you deserve, but proposing terms where God can demonstrate His faithfulness. Jacob had every right to demand substantial back wages for twenty years of labor under a manipulative employer. Instead, he chose a strategy that appeared to give Laban the advantage while trusting God to multiply his portion. When you face workplace injustice or family exploitation, consider whether demanding your rights or trusting God’s creative provision might better display His power. Like Jacob, you can negotiate with wisdom while depending on divine blessing rather than human fairness, knowing that God sees your labor and will not forget it (Hebrews 6:10).

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