“Tell me therefore, which of them will love him most?”
The full verse · Luke 7:42 · KJV
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Asked by
Jesus: the Son of God and promised Messiah, a guest at the table of a Pharisee, telling him a story of two debtors (Luke 7:36, 40-41)
Asked to
Simon the Pharisee: the Pharisee who had invited Jesus to eat with him and who had silently judged the woman at Jesus' feet (Luke 7:36, 39-40)
The Scene
At a meal in Simon the Pharisee's house, a woman of the city "which was a sinner" has washed Jesus' feet with her tears, and Jesus answers Simon's unspoken judgment with a story about two debtors (Luke 7:36-41).
Why It Was Asked
The purpose behind the questionSimon had decided, without saying a word, that Jesus could not be a prophet, or He "would have known who and what manner of woman this is that toucheth him" (Luke 7:39). Jesus answered that silent thought: "Simon, I have somewhat to say unto thee" (Luke 7:40). Instead of rebuking him outright, Jesus told a story and asked Simon to judge it. Gill explains that the creditor stands for God and the two debtors for "greater and lesser sinners: all sins are debts, and all sinners are debtors." The question leads Simon to say for himself that great forgiveness produces great love, and then Jesus shows him that truth sitting at his own table (Luke 7:44-47).
The Response
What Scripture recordsSimon answered, "I suppose that he, to whom he forgave most," and Jesus said, "Thou hast rightly judged" (Luke 7:43). Matthew Henry notes, "Certainly, saith the Pharisee, he to whom he forgave most; and herein he rightly judged." Jesus then turned to the woman and applied the story to the two people in front of Him: Simon had given no water, kiss, or oil, but she had washed, kissed, and anointed His feet (Luke 7:44-46). "Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much: but to whom little is forgiven, the same loveth little" (Luke 7:47).
Historical Context
The world behind the wordsThe two debts were "five hundred pence" and "fifty" (Luke 7:41). The ESV calls these coins denarii. One debt was ten times the other. In another parable labourers are hired "for a penny a day" (Matthew 20:2), so even the smaller debt was a real sum.
The KJV "frankly forgave" translates the Greek echarisato, from charizomai. Thayer's lexicon gives its general sense as "to show oneself gracious, kind, benevolent" and lists this verse under the sense "to grant forgiveness, to pardon," used where a debt is in view. Barnes explains "frankly" as "Freely forgave, or forgave entirely without any compensation." Gill notes that the Ethiopic version, an ancient translation, reads "ought to love him most."
The Bigger Picture
Where this fits in God's storyThe story puts both debtors in the same place: "they had nothing to pay" (Luke 7:42). The difference between them is only the size of the debt, and both are released by the free grace of the creditor. Gill calls it "the wonderful grace of God, the creditor!" Simon could see the woman's debt clearly, but the story quietly includes him among the debtors too.
Barnes adds a careful word: the detail of free forgiveness "is not designed to express anything about the way in which God forgives sinners," since God pardons sin as a moral governor, through the atonement of Christ, not as a creditor waives a money debt. The point of the story is what forgiveness produces. Love does not buy pardon; pardon awakens love. Barnes reads Luke 7:47 this way, with the woman's love as the evidence of her forgiveness, not its cause. Jesus confirms the source when He tells her, "Thy faith hath saved thee" (Luke 7:50).
Look Closer
What led Jesus to tell Simon this story?
Carry the question into prayer and conversation.
Father, I had nothing to pay and You forgave me freely; where has my love for You grown small because I have forgotten how much You forgave?
A prayer to carry into the day.
- Simon could measure the woman's debt but not his own. Why is it easier to see how much others need forgiveness than how much you do?
- Tell about a time when being forgiven, by God or by another person, changed the way you loved.
For you, a small group, a friend, or the dinner table.
The story levels everyone. Both debtors "had nothing to pay" (Luke 7:42). You do not need a dramatic past to love God much; you need to see how much you have been forgiven. When love for God feels thin, the answer is not to try harder to feel it but to look again at the size of His mercy toward you.
This does not mean that love earns forgiveness, or that more sin brings more love. Jesus tells the woman it was her faith that saved her (Luke 7:50), and her love was the fruit of a forgiveness already received. Let gratitude, not guilt, be the root of your devotion.
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