“But a wounded spirit who can bear?”
The full verse · Proverbs 18:14 · KJV
The of a will his ; but a who can ?
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The intended audience is the reader of Proverbs, with particular application to anyone facing affliction or ministering to the brokenhearted.
Why It Was Asked
The purpose behind the questionSolomon frames the devastating nature of inner despair as a rhetorical question to force readers to confront what they already know but rarely acknowledge; that spiritual and emotional brokenness exceeds physical suffering in weight. The question format compels personal examination rather than passive agreement, making the insight unforgettable.
The Response
What Scripture recordsNo verbal response is recorded. The question stands unanswered, its silence forcing readers to supply the obvious conclusion: no one can bear a crushed spirit.
The Bigger Picture
Where this fits in God's storySolomon’s question highlights an unbearable paradox: the very resource needed to endure suffering, a resilient spirit, becomes unavailable when the spirit itself is wounded. The Hebrew construction uses ruach twice, first as the sustaining force and then as the potential casualty. The verb sabal, translated ‘sustain’ or ‘endure,’ suggests bearing up under a heavy load. Physical sickness (choli or mahaleh) can be borne because the inner person remains intact, providing strength and hope. But when the ruach is crushed (nekeh, meaning stricken or broken), the load-bearing structure collapses. Solomon chooses interrogative form rather than declarative statement to engage the reader’s own experience, everyone intuitively knows the answer but needs the question to crystallize the insight. The theological weight is profound: if human spirit is insufficient for its own restoration when crushed, healing must come from outside, from the One who revives the spirit of the humble and gives life to the contrite heart (Isaiah 57:15).
Your inner wounds cut deeper than any physical pain. While you might push through illness with sheer willpower, a crushed spirit drains the very reservoir you would draw from. Recognize that emotional and spiritual brokenness is not weakness but a burden that surpasses human strength to carry alone. The God who is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18) offers what no human resilience can provide: restoration of joy, renewal of hope, and the binding up of inner wounds. When ministering to others, never minimize spiritual suffering by comparing it to ‘real’ physical ailments. A crushed spirit is the heaviest burden, and it requires the deepest compassion and the truest source of healing. Christ Himself, who bore our sorrows and carried our grief (Isaiah 53:4).
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