“Why will ye go with me? Are there yet any more sons in my womb, that they may be your husbands?”
The full verse · Ruth 1:11 · KJV
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The Scene
On the road from Moab to Judah, the widowed Naomi has urged her two widowed daughters-in-law to go home, and they have answered, "Surely we will return with thee unto thy people" (Ruth 1:7-10).
Why It Was Asked
The purpose behind the questionNaomi had nothing left to offer, and she wanted her daughters-in-law to see that clearly before they went any further. If they came with her, they would have no hope of marrying again; Keil & Delitzsch explain that this was the point she was trying to make. Her first question asks for their reason. Were they moved only by natural affection for her, or by real love for the God and people of Israel? Gill says this is what she wanted to find out. Her second question answers itself: she has no more sons who could become their husbands. She also did not want them to come only for her sake. Matthew Henry says she wanted it to be their own deliberate choice.
The Response
What Scripture recordsNaomi answers her own question, and then each daughter-in-law makes her choice. In Ruth 1:12-13 Naomi says, "I am too old to have an husband," and even if she bore sons that night, they could not wait for them. Then the women "lifted up their voice, and wept again." Orpah kissed her mother-in-law and went back, "but Ruth clave unto her" (Ruth 1:14), that is, Ruth clung to her. When Naomi pressed again, Ruth answered, "thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God" (Ruth 1:16).
Historical Context
The world behind the wordsNaomi's second question may point to a custom in Israel's law, though commentators read it differently. Keil & Delitzsch see a reference to levirate marriage, where a dead man's brother took his widow as wife to raise up a son in the dead brother's name (Deuteronomy 25:5-6; Genesis 38:8). Gill notes that earlier interpreters were divided on this, and he reads the question more simply: "is there any likelihood that I should ever have any sons to be instead of husbands, or really husbands to you?" The difference affects how we hear Naomi. On the first reading she is pointing to a family duty that no son of hers could now fulfill; on the second she is simply saying she can never give them husbands. Either way, the answer is no.
The word the KJV renders "womb" is the Hebrew me'im, literally "inward parts" or "bowels." Keil & Delitzsch also point out that Naomi did not mention finding other husbands in Judah, perhaps out of delicacy because they were Moabites.
The Bigger Picture
Where this fits in God's storyNaomi's question looks only at what she could not give: she had no sons left to become their husbands (Ruth 1:11-12). But the story goes on to show what she could not see on the road. Boaz, "a kinsman of her husband's," was already in Bethlehem (Ruth 2:1), and Ruth would become his wife and bear a son (Ruth 4:13).
The question also became a turning point. It separated a choice made from affection for Naomi from a choice made for Naomi's God. Orpah went back "unto her gods" (Ruth 1:15). Ruth chose "thy God my God" (Ruth 1:16).
Look Closer
Why did Naomi ask, "are there yet any more sons in my womb"?
Carry the question into prayer and conversation.
Lord, when I follow You only for the people I love, how can my choice become truly my own, made for You?
A prayer to carry into the day.
- If someone asked you, "Why will you go with me?", what would be the honest reason behind your faith right now?
- Who in your life has been honest with you about the cost of following God? How did that help you?
For you, a small group, a friend, or the dinner table.
Love can tell the truth about the cost. Naomi did not pretend the road to Bethlehem would be easy, and she did not want her daughters-in-law to come only to please her. Matthew Henry says that faith taken up "only to oblige their friends, or for the sake of company" is of small value, and that a person should make it a deliberate choice.
When you invite someone to follow God, be honest about what it may cost. And when you weigh your own walk with Him, ask whether it rests on people you love or on God Himself.
This kind of honesty does not mean pushing people away. Ruth was welcomed: once Naomi saw Ruth's mind was set, she "left speaking unto her" (Ruth 1:18), meaning she stopped urging her to turn back.
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