At one time, Saul loved David (16:21, “liked him very much,” niv), but the king’s attitude changed into jealousy and then hatred. The Lord was with David (18:12, 14, 28), however, and Saul was not permitted to harm him. During the ten years or so that David was a fugitive, the Lord not only thwarted Saul’s plans repeatedly, but He even used the king’s hostility to mature David and make him into a man of courage and faith. While Saul was guarding his throne, David was being prepared for his throne.
Love (vv. 1–4). Too many Bible readers still view David and Jonathan as two frolicsome teenagers who liked each other because they had many common interests, but this picture is shallow and inaccurate. Jonathan had to be at least twenty years old to be in his father’s army, and the fact that Jonathan was already commanding one-third of that army and had won two great victories (13:1–4; 14:1ff.) indicates that he was a seasoned soldier and not a callow adolescent. Some biblical chronologists calculate that there could have been an age difference of twenty-five to twenty-eight years between David and Jonathan.
Jonathan listened to his father and David converse, and after that interview, took David to his own heart with the kind of manly affection that comrades in arms understand. Jonathan was Saul’s eldest son, destined for the throne of Israel, and the Lord had already given it to David, so their friendship was certainly unique. When Jonathan gave his official garments and his armor to David, making him a friend and equal, Jonathan was acknowledging that David would one day take his place, so David must have told Jonathan about his anointing. The two friends covenanted that when David became king, Jonathan would be second in command (20:16–17, 42; 23:16–18), and David covenanted to protect Jonathan’s family from being slain.
Saul wasn’t pleased with his son’s friendship with David. For one thing, Jonathan was Saul’s best commander and was needed to make the king look good. Saul was also afraid that Jonathan would divulge court secrets to David, and when Saul discovered that David was already anointed to succeed him, this made matters worse. He saw David as an enemy, a threat to his own son’s future, although Jonathan didn’t view it that way. But when a leader nurtures himself on pride, jealousy, and fear, he suspects everybody.
Popularity (vv. 5–7). “The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but a man is tested by the praise he receives” (Prov. 27: niv). Just as the crucible and furnace test the metal and prepare it for use, so praise tests and prepares people for what God has planned for them. How we respond to praise reveals what we’re made of and whether or not we’re ready to take on new responsibilities. If praise humbles us, then God can use us, but if praise puffs us up, we’re not yet ready for a promotion.
In his attitudes, conduct, and service, David was a complete success, and Saul’s servants and the Jewish people recognized this and praised him publicly. This popular acclaim started after David’s stunning defeat of Goliath, when the army of Israel chased the Philistines for ten miles, defeated them, and took their spoils (1 Sam. 17:52ff.). As Saul and his men returned to camp, the women met the victors and praised both Saul and David. In true Hebrew fashion, their praise was exaggerated, but in one sense it was true. David’s victory over Goliath made it possible for the whole army of Israel to conquer the Philistines, so each soldier’s achievement was really a triumph for David.
Envy and anger (vv. 8–11). “It is a dangerous crisis when a proud heart meets with flattering lips,” said John Flavel, seventeenth-century British Presbyterian clergyman and author. What the women sang didn’t seem to affect David, but their song enraged Saul. Saul had already forfeited the kingdom (15:28), but he still asked, “What can he have more but the kingdom?” Saul’s response to David’s success was exactly opposite that of John the Baptist when he was told of the great success of Jesus: “He must increase, but I must decrease” (John 3:30).
Envy is a dangerous and insidious enemy, a cancer that slowly eats out our inner life and leads us to say and do terrible things. Proverbs 14: rightly calls it “the rottenness of the bones.” Envy is the pain we feel within when somebody achieves or receives what we think belongs to us. Envy is the sin of successful people who can’t stand to see others reach the heights they have reached and eventually replace them. By nature, we are proud and want to be recognized and applauded, and from childhood we have been taught to compete with others. Dr. Bob Cook often reminded us that everybody wears a sign that reads, “Please make me feel important.” Much modern advertising thrives on envy as it cleverly contrasts the “haves” and the “have-nots” and urges the “have-nots” to buy the latest products and keep up with the “haves.” Envious people max out their credit cards to buy things they don’t need just to impress people who really don’t care!
But envy easily leads to anger, and anger is often the first step toward murder (Matt. 5:21–26). This explains why Saul threw his spear at David while David was trying to soothe the king and help him overcome his depression. The Lord enabled David to escape, and when he returned to the king a second time, Saul only tried again to kill him. These two events probably occurred after the Goliath victory but before David was made an officer in the army, and yet David remained faithful to his king.
Fear (v. 12). The Lord protected His servant David from Saul’s murderous hand, a fact that frightened Saul even more (vv. 15, 29). Surely Saul knew he was fighting a losing battle, for the Lord was on David’s side but had departed from him. However, Saul kept up a brave front as he tried to impress his officers with his authority. Even if Saul missed his target, the people around him didn’t miss the message he was sending: “Saul is king and he wants David to be killed.”